you might be able to do some of that with qt5ct i think, but i have been wrong once before
KDE theme in Budgie
Lucien_Lachance i have been wrong once before
You could try QGnomePlatform. You'd have to build from source, but it may fit the bill.
Also see discussion on this exact topic here on KDE Invent from a few months ago. Our very own Mr. Strobl posted there as well for BoB.
Brucehankins
I'l be honest, I though QGnomePlatform was the GTK2 imitation thing.
Still, from what I read on the dev tracker compiling it on my own would be a pain, since it would need to be recompiled at each KDE update
I personally wouldn't port any packages that start with K into Budgie. But that's just me. Anyways, you'll see.
Lucien_Lachance
This might work, but it's ignoring the palette option. Maybe after a reload it will be better.
However, it also decided to arbitrarily override a global config (~/.config/fontconfig/font.conf) without warning, so anyone know if we are supposed to have one by default?