brent I could try this, but how would I interpret the data?
Not much to analyze. The tool picks up all the wifi signals in your area, and shows them in graphical form:
Find your network and you can read the signal strength (dBm) off the chart. What you really want is signal above -50. If the signal strength is above -70, signal strength is adequate. Below -80, signal strength, won't connect reliably. Between -80 and -70, marginal.
You can click between bottom tabs for various views.
The bottom line (1 2 3 etc) show channels. 2.4 GHz channels most used are 1, 6 and 11 (see the chart). If you are on Channel 1, and it is crowded, switch to a channel that is less crowded. That will reduce signal interference.
Another quick thought: Most modern Windows computers are dual channel -- 2.4 GHz and 5 GHz. Check to see if your partner is using 5 GHz. If she is, consider switching to 2.4 GHz by turning off 5 GHz. 5 GHz is faster but 2.4 GHz is less fragile.
brent What factors may cause that to happen? That's an interesting thing to say and an impedance of some sort sounds likely.
Wifi is a radio signal, transmitted both ways (modem to computer, computer to modem). If you are competing with a bunch of other users on a channel, signals can interfere with each other, causing errors. Other things (basically anything elecrtic that goes "whhhrrrrr") can also cause interference. Run your electric drill next to the router and I guarantee you that wifi will go bananas.
brent Opinions here on if this could be the case vary here, but that is what I originally believe(d). I want to try buying longer phone cord and move the router near us.
All sorts of things can reduce signal strength. We have an area in our apartment that is a "dead zone" because the signal can't plow through the refrigerator. Anything metal kills signal. Walls don't normally (my computers are 25-30 feet and two walls away from my router, for example and I still get excellent signal strength), but walls reduce signal strength. The trick is to move the laptop and/or the modem around and see what increases signal strength.
Do quick look at "wifi dead zone" on the internet and you'll quickly get a working understanding.
Bottom line: Try different things and see what works.