brent you are a man of eternal mystery
Nah. I joined the Solus forum, somewhat reluctantly, because I had a question about Microsoft Edge that wasn't answered in the forum, so I joined to ask the question. I got a direct response from Josh, even if it wasn't the answer I wanted. I posted about the Microsoft Edge Flatpak a few times, and then bit by bit started to get more involved.
I'm not a "forum person". I used Ubuntu 2006 to 2017 and never joined or participated in the Ubuntu forum(s), for example. I joined the Ubuntu Budgie forum because I had a question to ask there, too, and I was an active member of the MEI forum for a couple of years to try to push Microsoft into supporting Edge on Linux. But otherwise, pretty much not.
brent you will always have someone occasionally snide you/spite you when you try to help them; it's the nature of the beast (global online forum)
I wonder if members of the Solus community are mindful of how decent the people who post on this forum are to one another. We see someone come in from time to time and act like a jerk, but I don't think I've seen more than a handful of personal flame wars on this forum over the last couple of years. That is very unusual for Linux forums, except for those that are heavily moderated. We are a good group.