Harvey Thank you for the very thorough reply!
Given the amount of work going into Solus I know design and functionality choices are not arbitrary so contributions aren't time-wasting. Just probing for understanding.
My question about "premise and goal" was answered by your comment " Solus is all about that curated experience". I didn't get that impression from the homepage, or any other advertisement of Solus. This is the first time I've heard it. Knowing that now, I understand the software center side of things more and the curation of packages. I'm a fan of minimalist, modern, and elegant software. Hopefully, this is the place to be.
No argument on unverified being included, I didn't fully comprehend the packaging and testing hurdle, understood. The 3rd Party section's purpose/reason for existing wasn't clear, now understood. Now that I know the intention to integrate snap/flatpak in our software center with applicable labels for users to choose, like half of my misunderstanding was addressed. The "rolling-release" nature wasn't completely clear to me, understood. PPA-like / User repo/AUR functionality not existing rolls into the "unverified software" answer.
The code repo thing should really be made more clear in the documentation or somewhere. "Solus-Project" is abandoned with no way to take it down, got it. Had no idea that Budgie is not synonymous with Solus, I thought it was being developed in-house with the ability to be used on other OS's like GNOME or xfce. Has a lot to do with not knowing about the whole soulus-project thing which shares branding. it wasn't super clear about solus-project vs getsolus so that answers a lot. If budgie isn't connected, is the in-house GUI thing related to the talk of Wayland I see around for v11?
IRC choice, understood. I need to find a more modern-looking client, or figure out how to make/hack one. The main discord thing for me was about the benefit of easy access to real-time communication on a more mainstream platform, I was unaware of the downsides.
Everything after the IRC section is all wrapped into my lack of understanding about the Software center that will include our packages, snap, and flatpak. I worded that whole "software center" paragraph weirdly, but I got my answer anyway lol. I understood why we don't use other distros repos, and didn't mean to imply any connection between Solus and another distro.
I'm sorry if my questions and whatnot seem obtuse. I'm a novice programmer with basically no contribution history to open-source projects, but still want to help out. I figure if I don't understand these things, it will be hard for other new people too.