I should have probably titled this post "are there other package managers besides software manager available for solus" it would have saved lots of meandering on my end 😛
For some reason ungoogled from Snapstore gave me issues, something to do with no-sandbox flags causing bugs and opening new instances each time. The snap page for it even mentions it. Apparently the way around it is to use the flatpak version. Installed flatpak and installed ungoogled there and this version works fine.
I'll take the advice to stick with the trinity only (eopkg primarily & flatpak/snap) and update them once a week or so. On arch I simply used "yay" command and that handled it all at once- if only there was such a command on Solus to upgrade everything but I'm still learning.
Solus was always my fallback option if Arch broke, which I kinda expected it to. I had Solus 4.2 on a USB stashed away and it saved my PC so I'm here to stay. And if it breaks, I break my PC lol
Seriously thanks so much mw / brent and the others for the detailed info and explanations and even instructions that is so awesome of you. Have a great one friends