I love Desktop Icons. For me a "real" Desktop has an Icon for the Home-folder, the Network and so on.
The Problem is, if you are able to put your own files/links at your desktop, over the time you have many waste laying around. So you have to cleanup or you are a disciplinated guy from the beginning...
For the last 12 month (or more) I never used my desktop icons (even not the trash) and I don't put some new ones on the desktop and this works too.
I have some links in the Budgie Icon list an I use Plank, thats enough.
I think I could live whitout Desktop Icons....