ReillyBrogan I think this answer was comprehensive, detailed and also, very GOOD answer.
Awesome! Therefore I'm humbled before these words of wisdom. =)
I think only sensible thing then is #2 disable auto-login. It is what it is.
ps. There is psychological, "human-thing" here at play (with auto-login): You have been "promised" something (automatic login). Then you experience it like the "promise" dont't hold. Perhaps that is just really bad design (or broken) and worth of it's own thread.
pps. All answers and discussion here were very helpful and appreciated, none was ignored, there was food for thought in every one of them. If I failed communicate that I'm sorry.
edit. whoops double negative correction.