I have finally done the reinstalling with a bigger main EFI partition and it works pretty great after some headaches during install, mainly related to the install not installing the Linux Boot Manager but i had to do that manually i made sure that the install was UEFI with:
Anyways when i boot i get the option to boot into either Windows, Solus or Firmware via what i guess is the clr-boot-manager. Now as i said earlier when im in Win10 and it hibernates i then turn on my PC it still defaults to boot into Solus and from my understanding that is kind of dangerous! If you mount the Windows partition and changes that partitions files (correct me if im wrong) creating some kind of mismatch with what Win10 has in its memory and what its presented with can cause a boot failure..
So to my question; can i somehow make whatever OS i ran last/hibernated be the default one in the boot manager?
screenshot of my disk with partitions
