OK, so, I think that nvidia-powerd alone should suffice.
~ $ cat /proc/driver/nvidia/gpus/0000\:01\:00.0/power [#here you should replace the directory after /nvidia/gpus/ with whatever you have; just use the TAB key on your keyboard and then go to /power]
Runtime D3 status: Enabled (fine-grained)
Video Memory: Active
GPU Hardware Support:
Video Memory Self Refresh: Supported
Video Memory Off: Supported
S0ix Power Management:
Platform Support: Supported
Status: Disabled
Notebook Dynamic Boost: Supported
Also used watch -n1 nvidia-smi and opened a game; the max TDP went a little beyond its limit, I can only guess that it's working as it's supposed to.
EDIT: yes, it's working fine. nvidia-dbus.conf is already under /usr/share/dbus-1/system.d which is the correct path for stateless systems
~If those files are important instead; since it can't see the directory I've tried to extract the files as written here: https://download.nvidia.com/XFree86/Linux-x86_64/580.119.02/README/faq.html
Then moved the files as written here https://download.nvidia.com/XFree86/Linux-x86_64/580.119.02/README/dynamicboost.html
Also added the files and commands shown here https://download.nvidia.com/XFree86/Linux-x86_64/580.119.02/README/powermanagement.html in order to make suspend/resume work better with my nvidia.
Honestly, I can't confirm anything more as I'm definitely not expert. At the moment, everything is working, so please be careful.~~