"not techie enough." has several distros coexisting nicely on the same disk, all different efi bootloaders, uses refind..
you are doing better than me 🙂
Before you take your ball and go home, I personally cured this not with refind or any other 'manager' I just got in the habit of spamming F12 (on a lenovo) on boot then picking the OS. One could say this doesn't solve the problem, but one also say this solves the problem entirely. I stay relatively undistracted waiting a few seconds til spam time,.
Depending on your machine this may be solved in the efibootmgr
; or in the bios. I've seen lots of threads about Solus making itself first. I've seen lots of threads that other distros/bootloaders sandbag Solus. Depends on some factors.
I have two cloned efi OS's (linux) existing happily. No way would I push that.
Others might have tips, be patient. In the meantime use the forum search. There are known fixes for this, as I said, depending on circumstance, hardware, etc.
2 cents