brent I'm sorry, I haven't properly explained my issue.
A while ago I was able to use both X11 and Wayland. Right in the login manager there was an option to do so (the little gear in the right bottom corner).
I tried some things out in Solus (I can't put my finger on what I did, but I'm suspecting it was when I installed the Budgie DE and later on removed it) and now that I wanted to check if my games ran better in Wayland than X11 I cannot make it work. I get the gear now, I get to pick Gnome (with wayland), but the login just doesn't happen.
The .conf file I modified after the issue appeared (this is how I got the gear showing up again).